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I continue to be astounded by the number of white men who still see me and immediately assume I am "submissive, docile, compliant, accommodating, sweet in the kitchen, tiger in the bedroom".

My body is viewed as a literal and symbolic site upon which to construct their fantasies of the perfect Asian lover. The pernicious perception that most young Asian women have petite, child-like bodies is not necessarily untrue.

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Beneath what is projected onto me, is my relationship to my Asian heritage; I have to fight against the Taiwanese cultural indoctrination that to be self-sacrificing and selfless is the ultimate way of being for a woman.

I have found these men unwilling to confront their own bias and prejudices.

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Every dating site has to have a way to measure how good-looking its users are. Unfortunately, despite our efforts, people still gravitate to the best-looking people.

Here plesae messages received each week, versus beauty:. The sharp increase at the right smashes down the rest of the curve, so its true nature is a bit obscured, but from the lowest percentile up, this is roughly an exponential function.

That is, it obeys the same maths seismologists use to measure the energy released by earthquakes: In terms of its effect, there is little noticeable difference between, say, a 1.

But at the high end, a small difference has cataclysmic impact. Or launch a thousand ships.

Here is data for interview requests on Lvoes, a job-search site for hourly and service workersplotted against the attractiveness of the applicants:. Here, the female curve is exponential and the male is linear. Moreover, they hold whether the hiring manager, the person doing the interviewing, is a man or a woman.

And female employers view it through the same seemingly sexualised lens, despite there typically being no romantic intent. OkCupid matches people by asking them questions — we ask pretty much everything from how often you brush your teeth, hwite whether you believe in God — and the user answers on average about of them.

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