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It can also bring xa some friction inside long-term relationships. Here are some reasons why most gay and bisexual men prefer to bottom or be submissive, letting their partner lead. Yes, they may find it entertaining or tolerate it, but even the simplest, discreet displays of affection it can still be met with subtle disapproval.

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When it comes to gay men having sex, they do not have the built-in polarity that exists biologically between a man and a woman. At the same time, most gay men are drawn to masculine presenting men.

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Thus, gay men are more able to place their attention higher on the pyramid to things such as love and notably fulfillment. Experiences that have been less common and which are considered desirable are more on the cultural radar of gay men then they were in the long distant past. Being vulnerable, receptive and at the same time safe, is appealing for many reasons. These days even many straight Muscular adult wives aa male seeking submissive are drawn to sexual expressions that are marked by greater vulnerability such as being bound or receptive anal sex.

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