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You can view traits as behavioral tendencies Allport,more generalized and deeper connected with inner brain structures then habits.
Some of then are acquired, but many originates from within, are innate to to speak.
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How likely are you to fall for the con? What is interesting is tht, they are typically more successful is luring high IQ male victims then low IQ male victims. See scene in the cafe in Fatal Attraction as an example of such behaviour. The same process takes place Adult wants nsa Dubois Wyoming this stage with a female sociopath: All this is done under smoke screen of psychopathic charm, which disarms the victim.
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Everything they say is typically false, and is designed to entrap the victim. But it is very difficult to understand that the behaviour is based upon lies, while being on the other side of the "charm offence". Female sociopath are masters of playing male vanity like gifted musician plays violin.
They typically demonstrate pretty convincingly a huge albeit fake admiration of you as a person, as a specialist, as a manager. That increases your self-worth and in grey, boring real world were there are very Adult wants nsa Dubois Wyoming people openly admire others, such attitude usually has immediate success. You are in a trap before you realize what is happening.
Again, this works even better if the victim has high IQ as people with high IQ typically have doubts about their self worth, and as such are more vulnerable to flattery and excessive but subtle praise aka love bombing.
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In literature, the character Scarlett O'Hara from Margaret Mitchell's Gone with the Wind would be considered a drama queen by today's standards. This type of person is notoriously self-centered and self-absorbed, often viewing friends and relatives as lesser beings assigned to take care of her personal needs.
Her worst enemy is solitude, so she tends to be very outgoing and sociable, although many of her friendships tend to remain at surface level.
Others who have experienced the drama queen's sudden outbursts in the past may have a feeling of walking Love in langstone egg shells around her, not wanting to be the person who delivers upsetting news or offends Lonely girl ready girl for sex in any way.
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This simple tactic might in many cases be not detrimental, but advantageous. Actually studying war tactics which were discussed for example in famous Clausewitz On War available free from clausewitz.
Among them cited from Wikipedia:. Sociopaths are notoriously difficult to spot because most of them are incredibly adept at hiding their true self and their motives.
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Wznts superiors they are all nice polite, clever, witty woman with considerable charm and who often act as relentless and effective seducers. In office environments they are often more vindictive and much more cruel to subordinates, then male sociopaths. They really view all and especially female subordinates as disposable items.
The facts that they are devoid of feeling of compassion does not make they incapable to detect and exploit their victims weaknesses.
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But the key ideas stay the same and even now after years the books gives a valuable insight in behaviour of all sociopaths. We can legitimately call female sociopath " Princesses of manipulation ".
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